How we React to Babies

Children are a big part of pro-creation. I assume you already know this, unless you are not sure of where babies come from then I suggest visiting allaboutsex.org and brushing up on that. Anyway, people in general have a certain attraction to newborn babies in particular. I have yet to understand this but by putting a multitude of sparse observations and theories on this entry, I may uncover what lies beneath in this fascination. Like I was saying, babies attract attention. They donít care whether it is negative or positive but they need the attention. If you leave a baby to itself, not only will it not survive from lack of food and lackluster environment but I am betting not having that social embrace or a mental and spiritual bond with another human or animal for that matter may cause effects that you wonít notice for years to come. Imagine a kid that is treated poorly throughout day 1 to age 12. For starters, it was not planned and has no father. The mother , in her hatred of the babies creator, takes it out on the child not physically with violence or neglect but an underlying hate by never smiling, talking or having any compassion for the child. If the kid grows up with this environment, think about the future attitude the child may have, as it grows older and the attitude it has towards its mother and the world it lives within.

MORE...

On the flip side, I see a positive environment will yield a much happier and socially adequate adult as life goes on. Returning to babies and attention, I wonder what inspires a person to get overly excited towards kids. Of course, most males (traditionally) have a closed portal to newborns and children. This may be a threat to their position of power or the attention they usually receive from women is taken away when a baby is present so they play the bad cop of the situation and give the kid the cold shoulder. It is common when a women brings her kid out, complete strangers will go out of their way to see the young one, make faces, talk ďbaby-talkĒ and go out of their way to please a baby in a way that the kid would relate although the kid just sees someone with a high pitched voice and moving around a lot; of course the kid is entertained.

Actually, it is not the baby that needs us but we who need it. A child chooses who its parents will be but if we chose it is where the importance lies. A baby is the essence of pro creation but if is not wanted, then a kind of speed bump in civilization occurs. This is opening an entirely different article but just to touch on the subject for a moment but if a parent chooses to have or not have a child due to their religious beliefs or social status and not on the basis whether they can or cannot have the child, then there is going to be complications later. The childbirth may not even go well. Afterwards physical things may arise in the child and spiritually, that soul of the child will be out of sync. The mother will grow to love the child but it knows its mother was not ready to experience that and give birth to a life form.

A problem that occurs when a mother decides to have the baby but will give it up for adoption usually fails. All animals have a protective instinct for the next in line. Donít forget humans are animals and we are equal with every other organism out there. I got in a controversy with a fellow classmate once that stated humans and animals are different but we are one in the same. Anyway, all animals have this instinct and there are cases where a baby is found by animals and they raise it was their own even if it is of another species entirely. An example of this, where humans are concerned, is the adoption of domesticated pets. Humans own millions of Dogs, cats, fish, birds and more exotic animals for their own and many claim these animals as their kids and chose not to have a human child. Children represent something different to everyone. Some just want to carry on their familyís legacy. Others want a life companion, friend or someone to take care of them when they get older. There is a large groups of people that have kids just because it is what they are taught. It is a habit of society to finish high school, meet your future mate during college. Get married right before you start your career, conceive a child on the honeymoon and live happily ever after well that is if you donít get a divorce in 5 years. It is the storybook way love is in the world or at least in the U.S.

Have you ever had a divine inspiration and started writing it down or creating it by designing, building or putting into text and then life happens and you have to go back to the so-called reality? That happened and although this was a decent article, I have reread and have no idea what I was going to say next or where this was going. Letís just continue this dead until I feel the inspiration stirring again.